Green on the Cape
I'm really excited today to present a guest post by one of our loyal readers, Alexandra Grabbe, an innkeeper of Chez Sven, a green B&B on Cape Cod. If you have ever had the desire to visit the Cape and can do so in April, Alexandra is offering 10% off the room rate for Living Large readers. Just mention us when you make your reservations!

Chez Sven B&B
I’m thrilled to address the readers of Living Large in Our Little House, one of my favorite blogs. My house is not as small as Dale and Kerri’s, but it isn’t big either, and I’m proud of that fact.
My husband Sven and I live in a traditional three-quarters Cape, in Wellfleet, Massachusetts, an old house that once belonged to my parents. We actually have too much space for my taste. I wanted to keep this marvelous house in the family, so five years ago I started a green bed & breakfast called Chez Sven.
Filling the Space in Our Hearts

Before I get to this morning’s post, I wanted to show you photos of the real snow we got yesterday. The Christmas Eve dusting was nothing compared to this snow, which measured 4 inches and it is still snowing this morning. This would be a good day for Dale to be retired and not have to brave the roads to work.

Now for today’s post…
We entertained in The Little House on New Year’s Eve, not because I really wanted to, but our neighbors have us down to their house quite often and my mom taught me it was nice to reciprocate. Besides, Rae, our friend and neighbor told me it was time. “We’re coming down to your house next time we’re down,” she said. They still live in the city and are down at least twice a month.
I suggested they come down for dinner on New Year’s Eve, but I also reminded her there’s a lot more room at their house.
“You know we don’t care about that,” she said. I know they don’t mind the small space, but at our house, it’s a bit tight and I think everyone must feel as if they’re in an airplane seat when they’re trying to eat. Our small drop leaf kitchen table is just 21 inches wide without the leaves and 42 inches long. As well, it’s pretty hard to cook when there’s extra people in the house. Cooking in front of others makes me a bit nervous, even when I have plenty of space.
Slumber Party at Campbell Town
“Are you nervous about next weekend?” My friend, Rae, from the present asked me about my impending slumber party with two friends from my past.
I shrugged. “No,” I wondered, should I be?
“I have known Shelly (left in the photo) since Kindergarten and Lora since junior high, why would I be nervous?”
“Well, 27 years is a long time,” she said. “You don’t really know them anymore.”
I thought about her question all week.
Was I living in a time warp, hoping that when I met these two people again in my driveway that things would be as if we had parted for a shorter period of time than nearly 3 decades?
Yes, 27 years was a long time and in some respects, it does feel like the lifetime ago that it was. Still, I couldn’t make myself feel nervous. Continue Reading »

