It's Weekender Season

Posted April 12th, 2010 by kerri and filed in small house living
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Rae, Dale and Fred mak­ing pasole

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I don’t think there’s any bet­ter of a week­end than spend­ing time with good friends and neighbors.

On Saturday, we planned a meal with our friends and neigh­bors who also hap­pen to be from Kansas City. Fred and Rae have been try­ing to sell their home in the city now for a year and although they are here every other week­end, they would like to be here permanently.

We’ve spent the past three years devel­op­ing a friend­ship that extends to spend­ing the hol­i­days together.

On Saturday, Rae made some of her famous Pasole, a Mexican recipe she picked up in the Southwest. We went down Saturday morn­ing to help with some of the prep work and then came back in the evening with my spe­cial home­made gua­camole and a few lime beers.

Their home over­looks the lake and it was the per­fect evening to sit out and watch a cou­ple of boats zip in and out of the cove while enjoy­ing our appetizers.

Although Fred and Rae are here at least every other week­end year around, most of the homes on their end of the road sit vacant for most of the win­ter months. After the fall foliage sea­son, most peo­ple, even if they have homes here, hun­ker down in their full-time home for the winter.

Even when we used the Little House as a get­away home, we usu­ally closed it up after we stayed a week between Christmas and New Years, some­times not get­ting back into the every other week­end rou­tine until May.

We can always tell it’s week­ender sea­son when the road becomes a lit­tle busier and we actu­ally get vis­i­tors at The Little House.

On Sunday, another neigh­bor, who has a week­end home next to Fred and Rae’s was out as we took the dogs (now the Fearsome Five, even if tem­porar­ily) for their evening stroll.

Gary lives with his wife in Pennsylvania, so he isn’t here as often, but spring and fish­ing fever got the best of him, so he came down for a cou­ple of weeks.

We sat on his deck, again with the view of the lake, on another pic­ture per­fect evening in par­adise get­ting to know Gary a lit­tle better.

Spring is here, the trees and flow­ers are com­ing back to life and it’s week­ender season!

Do you enjoy vis­it­ing with your neigh­bors and do you see more of them in the summer?

14 Responses to “It's Weekender Season”

  1. Vida says:

    Yep, with the return of sun we all emerge from our caves/houses and lazy lunches on the ter­race start to seem like a good idea again. Barbecues, pizza par­ties (with our wood fired oven), al fresco din­ing watch­ing the moon rise over the sea. Good friends, casual vis­i­tors, neigh­bors return­ing from the city and Northern lands, they all come by sooner or later! We make sure that we are well stocked with cof­fee and cakes or cook­ies, wine and "mezes" (Greek for tapas): olives, feta cheese, home cured anchovies, sun dried toma­toes, ppro­sciutto, mozarella.… we never know who is going to drop in!

    I LOVE summer!

  2. Kim says:

    Mmm. camp­fires. I think I need a firepit again.

  3. During the win­ter we hardly ever see a neigh­bor as every­one is indoors, but now that spring is here they are ven­tur­ing out, but every­one keeps to them­selves, not inter­act­ing much. I have often wished for a neigh­bor who would enjoy a cup of cof­fee with me like my grand­mother used to have. I remem­ber her neigh­bor would stop in and visit, have cof­fee. Her hus­band would even cut my grandmother's lawn as she was a widow. They became fam­ily friends.

  4. Kathleen Winn says:

    We are actu­ally among the "week­enders" when spring comes along. Our land is about an hour out­side the city and is our haven once temps warm up and birds start singing. We have neigh­bors out there who join us around the camp­fire nearly every week­end we spend at our prop­erty. They have become dear friends. Our cabin is a tent and our bath­room is an out­house, but we don't miss mod­ern ameni­ties at all once we're there. We just got back from our first week­end of sum­mer camp­ing there. Wild turkey are breed­ing and nest­ing, and their "gob­bling" starts at sun­rise, so we don't need an alarm clock. Spring flow­ers are bloom­ing and frogs are croak­ing. Indigo buntings and blue­birds are busy stak­ing ter­ri­tory and seek­ing mates with their songs. We go to sleep to the sound of barred owls, wake to turkey gob­bles and spend the day walk­ing, bird watch­ing and doing chores. Our hope is to some­day be per­ma­nent res­i­dents, but for now, we look for­ward to each week­end. Nature always pro­vides some­thing new to see, hear and expe­ri­ence. My hus­band pulled a large black snake out of a shed where we keep equip­ment. We don't mind black snakes, they keep the rodent pop­u­la­tion under con­trol, but it can be dis­con­cert­ing to reach under a table for a tool and end up grab­bing a snake! David relo­cated the snake so that we could use the shed with­out fear of get­ting bit­ten (their bites are harm­less but painful!) I look for­ward to many more week­ends there this sum­mer, and many nights around the camp­fire with our friends.

  5. Alexandra says:

    Most neigh­bors, here on Cape Cod, are not year-rounders. I often think about how I wish there were more neigh­bors about, whom one could call on in emer­gency, car-pool with when shop­ping, social­ize with …

    • Yes, Alexandra, it does get a lit­tle lonely here too in the win­ter. I love week­ender sea­son as long as it is just our neigh­bors. It's when they bring peo­ple down who aren't respect­ful of our sur­round­ings, or allow peo­ple to use their homes that I get frus­trated. The road being a lit­tle busier is ok, 4-wheelers run­ning up and down it for an entire week­end, not cool! :)

  6. I have enjoyed read­ing about the sea­sons on your blog. Here in the part of so Cal where we live it's never too snowy to drive and the neigh­bors are very close. There is some­thing very nice though about a road get­ting busier and that mark­ing the arrival of com­pany. It reminds me of sto­ries I heard grow­ing up about fam­ily vis­its and Sunday dinners.