A New Buddy

Posted April 9th, 2010 by kerri and filed in small house living
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Buddy

My friend and neigh­bor with whom we are gar­den­ing called me the other night. I could tell some­thing was wrong imme­di­ately in her voice.

Someone dumped a dog up here and some­one told me there was an ani­mal sanc­tu­ary on your road,” she said.

I asked the type of dog. She and her hus­band both thought it was a Beagle or Beagle mix, they didn’t know much about dogs. They could tell it was male, but couldn’t even tell me if he was fixed.

The “ani­mal sanc­tu­ary” she referred to really never got off the ground and the woman only took wolf hybrids any­way. I offered my friend the num­ber to the local SPCA and she said she had tried the shel­ters and all were full, no one would take him.

He’s such a nice dog,” she said. “I can’t even pet him because I don’t want to get attached because of what­ever has to be done….” Her voice trailed off.

Unfortunately, that “what­ever has to be done” in the coun­try usu­ally means shoot­ing a stray. It sounds harsh, I know, but dogs are rou­tinely dumped here in the coun­try, there’s no ani­mal con­trol in unin­cor­po­rated areas, and when shel­ters and res­cues won’t take them, that is mer­ci­fully bet­ter than the dog starv­ing to death, being hit by a car on the main road (and pos­si­bly caus­ing an acci­dent), or being left to the wildlife predators.

My neigh­bors are good peo­ple; they hate it when peo­ple leave this hor­ri­ble deci­sion to them. She’s a pas­sivist, but for the first time, I detected anger in her voice toward the peo­ple who dumped their respon­si­bil­ity on their doorstep.

Their jobs require them to travel, some­times for months at a time. They have a cat and it about kills my friend every time she has to leave her lit­tle feline.

We have four, really, what’s five?” I said. “Feed him what­ever you have tonight and we’ll fig­ure out what to do in the morn­ing.”
About noon on Wednesday, they brought the lit­tle guy down. He is a Beagle. Sweet, well man­nered and won’t even jump up on you if you beg him to.

We’ve had a lot of dogs dumped at our place over the years, some were mean, some were sick, this by far is the best one,” my neighbor’s hus­band said.

The Campbell Clan’s Fearsome Four were all put out, but I explained to them that he was home­less just as they all once were. They didn’t seem to under­stand, or care, but we didn’t have any major rows either.

Thanks, I think,” I said to my friends as they drove away.

He had one acci­dent in the house while try­ing to mark “his” ter­ri­tory from the all-female Fearsome Four.

My friend called me later that evening say­ing she thought she might have found him a home, but the man is trav­el­ing until late May and can’t take him until he returns.

I hope I don’t get attached,” I told her.

You have four, I told him you really didn’t need another one,” she said.

I’ve been call­ing him Buddy and Dale’s been call­ing him Bubba. Like my friend, I don’t want to get too attached. She’s right, we have all of the mouths we need to feed with the Fearsome Four. Besides, I don't know if I can remem­ber one more spot in the floor in the game of Twister dur­ing the mid­dle of the night.

A local char­ity offered to pay for part of Buddy’s vet bill to get neutered, heart­worm tested and get his shots. My neigh­bor offered some money toward the bill as well. My own dogs are behind on their shots, vets are def­i­nitely not less expen­sive in rural Arkansas.

He came home yes­ter­day minus the abil­ity to per­pet­u­ate the pet over­pop­u­la­tion prob­lem, groggy, but oth­er­wise no worse for the wear.

Just another week in paradise.

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43 Responses to “A New Buddy”

  1. Joyce says:

    It just occurred to me some­thing that my father once told me. Sometimes hunters will start to train a hunt­ing dog only to find that the ani­mal is gun-shy. Rather than take the time to find the dog a suit­able home, they will just dump them off at a near-by farm, or some­place where they sus­pect that there might be chil­dren. It's wrong, it's cruel, and very self­ish and uneth­i­cal, but this may be how you came to have Buddy/Bubba in your lives. Incidentally, not all hunters do this. We had a Walker coon­hound when I was a kid that just couldn't get the gist of tree­ing rac­coons, but she was an AWESOME pet. I don't know who was more upset, my Dad or my sis­ter, when my par­ents moved into an apart­ment and had to find "Clyde" (female) a new home!

    • I'm glad you were able to give your kitty a shot and she reacted purring! :) How cute.
      It could be that Buddy is a hunt­ing reject. There are def­i­nitely a lot of Beagles around. The man who said he wanted Buddy res­cued one dumped in the same gen­eral area last year.

  2. Joyce says:

    I had a kit­ten one time that I vac­ci­nated at home. I'm ter­ri­fied of nee­dles. He purred like crazy; I cried!

  3. Jenny says:

    I used to give my dogs their rou­tine vac­ci­na­tions also. My local feed store car­ried the all the vac­cines except for rabies. Rabies shots had to be given by a vet (who would then give you the paper­work to show inorder to get the required lis­cense and tags) The vac­cines come with instruc­tions on how and where to give the shot. It isn't hard to do—-just dif­fi­cult for me because I'm stick­ing a nee­dle into one of my 'kids'. The dogs didn't hardly notice and loved the fol­low­ing treats! lol

  4. Thank you for sav­ing this dog! What can we do to get more peo­ple to spay and neuter?

  5. Brandy says:

    God love him. Its a shame peo­ple dump animals.

    Our last boy is stray we took in from a rougher neighour­hood. hes too sweet to be on those streets long. hes a bit big­ger then we pre­fer and we had just gone to being a 1 pup fam­ily (down from 4, 3 have passed nat­u­rally in the last 3 years) and our 1 pup was lov­ing being an only but this one needs a lov­ing home we pro­vide and they try to get along. its hard but theyre get­ting there. hes per­fect though, loves our cats and no aggres­sion at all. 2 house acci­dents. im glad im off work for now to spend the time get­ting him set­tled into our lifestyle. I may have a house of cats and the 2 pups but all of our babies (cur­rent and passed) have been fixed. we arent con­tribut­ing to pet overpopulation.

  6. Awww, that photo of Buddy/Bubba makes my heart swoon :)

  7. olivia says:

    If only we lived nearby (we live on Canada's Atlantic Coast)!!

    We had a pure­bred bea­gle that lived for 15 1/2 years — we ADORED him. He was the smartest dog we ever had (altho' bea­gles can be very stubborn)and were dev­as­tated when we finally had to put him down. He was such a char­ac­ter. Looking at the photo of "Buddy" brings back so many mem­o­ries. Bless you for being so loving.

  8. Karen says:

    We'd had a kit­ten liv­ing on our porch roof the past few weeks. We already have way more than our share of kitty love so I spent a cou­ple weeks try­ing to find him a home of his own. Finally, a won­der­ful cou­ple drove from an hour away to take him home to spoil. It's so sad that peo­ple will dump these once-loved pets to fend for them­selves. Thank you for car­ing so much. =)

  9. Linda Mason says:

    He is adorable. You just can't believe the resem­b­lence. About two years ago my daugh­ter got a call from an ex-neighbor about a pup she found in her town­house park­ing lot. No one claimed him and she called my daugh­ter to see if she could take him and help to find him a home. To make the story short when she got the pup she called me to come and see him and help her find him a home. Hubby and I were think­ing about tak­ing him. Took me less than 15 min­utes to get in my truck and get to her place. In that time her and my son in law had named him and were keep­ing him. A lit­tle male bea­gle that looks exactly like yours. They already had two good size dogs ( both res­cue ) but he just fit in. He is son in laws baby and he is a love.

    I have two cats, both res­cue, ferel in the neigh­bor­hood. Was given a lit­tle dog last year and another puppy just this christ­mas. So I am full up too but when we get on our land hubby will want a big dog, so that will be join­ing our house­hold later. It will be a res­cue also.

    Don't enter me in the give­away as I already have mine spoiled on what I feed them. You can use some­one else's name to sub for mine. Someone that could really use the stuff. Just had to tell you about Sam cause he looked just like your pic­ture. Thanks

  10. We lost our beloved Beagle, Elwood the day after Thanksgiving last year. It was very sud­den. He was fine when he woke up and got sick in the after­noon. The vet said it was autoim­mune hemolytic annemia.

    Please take good care of Buddy in lov­ing mem­ory of my Elwood, who had the loud­est bark in the neighborhood.

    • I'm so sorry about the loss of your Elwood, Miriam. It's so hard when we lose one of our beloved 4-legged kids. We just heard Buddy's bark for the first time at 3:30 this morn­ing, typ­i­cal Beagle bay. Now I will think of your Elwood each time Buddy starts in.

  11. Vida says:

    First we had two, the third came along when she was returned twice to our vet for being too destruc­tive (we took her in because we know fox ter­ri­ers very well), the fourth we found wet and starv­ing under our car out­side our house, she was just a pup, who could turn her out? The fifth was a "gift" from last Christmas, she'd been poi­soned in a nearby vil­lage (here in Greece they poi­son dogs like they would rats). We answered a call for help and ran with our emer­gency kit… we saved her… now she lives with us and gives us immea­sur­able joy and trou­ble in equal parts!

    With num­ber five we had the same thought: We have four, what's five? But five is a hand­ful, they're a pack now! The dynam­ics have changed… But what can one do? It's dif­fi­cult some­times to be an ani­mal lover, but I am heart­ened that there are oth­ers out there who do the same! Good job!

    • Vida, I know the feel­ing of 5 being a real hand­ful, I'm start­ing to real­ize that at the moment. Buddy still hasn't fit into the pack yet, but I'm hop­ing that will come in time.

  12. S.A.B.L.E says:

    Kerri,

    Last week I, after your post about what green things we do daily and plan to do for April, the thought con­tin­ued and I real­ized I also have recy­cled cats and dogs. Those that no one else wanted but prob­a­bly more so those that some­one else refused to take respon­si­bil­ity for. It is a sub­ject that really makes me angry with so many raids on puppy mills, etc. I love my recy­cled crit­ters, 7 cats and 10 out of 13 dogs. The peo­ple that gave them up don't know how much love they are miss­ing out on.

    Thanks for tak­ing Buddy in. He does sound a won­der­ful dog. Also glad to read there are many folks out there that love their recy­cled critters.

    I give my crit­ters their shots. It really is not that hard to do and saves alot of money.

    • I look at mine every­day and won­der what the idiots were think­ing when they gave up these bun­dles of love and joy.
      You and David have inspired me to learn how to give shots. I just have to find some­one who can teach me to do it. I knew plenty of vet techs in the city, but will have to ask around here. I know it's a com­mon prac­tice and a great way to save money.

  13. Sandy says:

    We have a dog named Nina that we adopted after see­ing a ad placed on the door of our local farmer's sup­ply store. She was ~1.5 yrs old when we got her and she is the sweet­est dog ever! And smart! Being a part lab mix, she def­i­nitely likes to carry things in her mouth and will go get the paper for us in the morning..so funny to see her with the Sunday paper(it's so heavy and big). Our 2 cats, Smidge and Smudge(sisters) came to us after a cousin found them aban­doned. They were very small and not more than a week or 2 old(hence their names). She nursed them until we took them at 8 weeks. They are now very sea­soned in the art of lazi­ness. We also occa­sion­ally babysit our grand­dog, Emma(scottish terrier)and I have to say she's the cutest lit­tle thing ever. You know how grand­par­ents are with their grand­dogs! We'll soon be empty nesters as our youngest son grad­u­ates high school in May, so I am thank­ful we have our pets to dote on!

    • Love those names, Smidge and Smudge! And I can just pic­ture your dog with that Sunday paper, too cute! Yes, I do know how those grand­par­ents are with their grand­dogs. I was just telling my Emma yes­ter­day how she was her grammy's favorite (she knows this, of course)! :)

  14. Susan says:

    We have 2 dogs (PeeWee a fox ter­rier 7yrs and Roxy a Lab/Heeler 5yrs) and 2 cats, both will be 11 this year. Edgar the grey Burmese my son brought home said some guy was going to kill him because he was the runt. I thought he was a 6 week old kit­ten (he weighed about 1 1/2 pounds. Come to find out he was about 6 months old. We ended up putting some money into him to save him and here he is 11 years later. The 2 dogs have been brought home by the same son.…Guess you could say we have our own NO-Kill shel­ter here. The other cat showed up on our doorstep and I hid him for awhile before telling my hus­band. We lost another cat (the youngest at 5 1/2) in January unexpectedly.

  15. MarthaandMe says:

    It is won­der­ful that you could take him in. We recently had a dog come up to our front porch and look in the front win­dow and refuse to leave. Unfortunately, our town has a law that you can only have 2 dogs (which we do) unless you get a ken­nel license (which we wouldn't qual­ify for). So we took her to the town shel­ter which is no-kill and which places every sin­gle ani­mal they get.

  16. Keri says:

    I've been deter­mined to only take in res­cue dogs instead of buy­ing dogs and I try to encour­age fam­ily and friends to do the same.

    In a pre­vi­ous com­ment, I've men­tioned that one of our dogs, a ter­rier and rot­tweiler mix, is a hearing-ear dog. Her his­tory is heart­break­ing but her spirit inspires me. She was orig­i­nally trained and placed with a Deaf man. Apparently the Deaf com­mu­nity warned the Hearing Dog agency that he was not to be trusted. Fortunately he lived close to the agency so they kept an eye on him. Unfortunately, he put her in the back of his truck and tied her to a line. Somehow she fell out of the truck and was dragged a mile before the man noticed or some­one stopped him. She was bald and injured so the agency imme­di­ately took her back and nursed her back to health. They knew she was going to be okay because her friendly and ener­getic per­son­al­ity was still present. When she healed, I was the lucky new owner. Today, Tilly is 12 years old and still going strong. She's a spe­cial girl and I love her to pieces.

    • kerri says:

      OMG, that is such a hor­rific story, Keri. But I'm so glad Tilly turned out ok and ended up with you! I always see peo­ple here dri­ving down the road with ani­mals in the back of their trucks. If it's ille­gal to put your kids back there, I think it should also be ille­gal to put pets there as well.

  17. kerri says:

    Kristi, I've often wished I had some­place close to take Sade for train­ing for the ther­apy dog pro­gram, I think she would be a good one. That must be so reward­ing for you and Emma!

  18. V Schoenwald says:

    My home is full of cats that have been dumped , sev­erly injured, beaten, etc. I work with a spay/neuter group called Paw-sitive Partners, and I am their trauma nurse.
    I have 6 cats that are in var­i­ous stages of dis­abil­ity, the worst one I had was a 1 legged kit­ten about 8 wks old who sur­vived going through a truck engine block, she only has one left front leg, the rest are cut off as well as her tail.
    She is 10 yrs old and does abso­lutly won­der­ful, she runs around and looks like a bunny hop­ping, she can jump up in a chair, and she can run when she has to. This proves that ani­mals can make the best of their sit­u­a­tion as it is the strength they have to sur­vive.
    This is a ter­ri­ble prob­lem that I bat­tle in town, I have huge colonies of wild cats around me, and I really get tired of pick­ing up bod­ies from the busy street I live by, but it is my job I feel, so I just do it.
    I do not have answers to this prob­lem, just the fact that there are peo­ple like all of us who are there for these crea­tures.
    Bless all of us. We need it.

    • kerri says:

      You're an angel, V. Most peo­ple would just leave them lying there. We all do what we can.

  19. Cindyt says:

    I have the honor to 'share' the cabin here with two Pekingnese Brothers! I have always had Pekes over the years but when my last one passed away in my arms I had a 'dry' spell of about 5 years. I had been Helping to sup­port a Peke Rescue here in my state with my dona­tions when these two 'boyz' pic­tures popped up on the Rescue website…it was Love at first sight! They were 4 years old and had fallen on hard times together after their owner went into assisted liv­ing. Her daugh­ter had them but her hus­band was abu­sive to them and threat­ened to stomp them to death if they weren't gone when he came home. She called res­cue and that is how I came to have my two Best Friends now for six years! I per­son­ally had I been the lady would have got­ten rid of the Husband! So her loss was my gain! They are the best! Right now they are 'talk­ing' to the world out­side their door! LOL. What ever the out­come for Buddy he looks to be a lucky pup! Tho Sad in his pic­ture right now. But maybe he has found his home Kerrie 'Five'Coat-Campbell :)

    • kerri says:

      What a lucky break for those broth­ers, Cindy! I'm with you, I would have kept the dogs and kicked (lit­er­ally) the hus­band. I have a Christmas orna­ment Dale bought me that says, "Missing: Husband and Dog. Reward for Dog." It's a joke, but I keep him won­der­ing. ;)

  20. David says:

    "Her and her hus­band both thought it was a Beagle or Beagle mix…" ??? Really? Her did?

    –Sorry, couldn't resist.

    Personally, I'll be quite sur­prised if he winds up any­where else after a month.

    I used to give my dogs all their rou­tine shots, as a phar­macy in Austin used to carry vet sup­plies. If there are none in your area, there are plenty of online sources for vac­cines. See, for exam­ple, http://​www​.vetmed​di​rect​.com/

    You can get some very good vac­cines for four or five bucks a dose.

    • kerri says:

      Thanks for point­ing out my gram­mat­i­cal error, David. I'm usu­ally pretty good at English, but ter­ri­ble at math but I know when I put a week of doing taxes+a full load of work+ a new dog+ new husband's sched­ule + get­ting sick yes­ter­day, it equals errors. ;)
      Thanks for the tips on the shots. The prob­lem is that I also don't have a clue as to how to give them.

  21. Kathleen Winn says:

    Oh Kerri– what a gen­er­ous heart you have! Lucky Buddy! I am all too famil­iar with the prob­lem of dogs being dumped in the coun­try. I have many fam­ily mem­bers who live in the rural areas, and have helped find homes for count­less dogs and cats over the years. My brother has had to carry out the sad task of some­times putting an end to a dogs life, when it's too wild or sick to find a home for. Terrible! I will be going out to my sister's horse barn today, and she's already told me that there is a lit­ter of kit­tens in the barn that need to be res­cued. It's an ongo­ing prob­lem and it breaks my heart that there are so many ani­mals in hope­less sit­u­a­tions, because of the irre­spon­si­bil­ity of peo­ple. At least there is one less dog suf­fer­ing hunger, neglect and aban­don­ment, thanks to the kind­ness of you and your neighbors.

    • kerri says:

      Kathy, I know you've per­son­ally tried to find homes for so many of those barn cats. We had the same prob­lem when we leased land in KC for our horses. People usu­ally don't ven­ture this far off the black­top to dump their ani­mals, but my friend says they've had many dumped up at their house, right off the black top, many times in their 25 years here. I have a feel­ing Buddy won't be the last. :(

  22. Alexandra says:

    We had a dog, when I was a child. Then I became a cat per­son as an adult. My chil­dren all have cats. Since my sec­ond hus­band has aller­gies, no pets for me any­more. Once we were adopted by a clever gray kitty, who had been aban­doned and lived out­side, under our house. That hap­pens here a lot, once peo­ple leave after vaca­tion. They aban­don their pets. I don't think the own­ers always do it on pur­pose. With cats, some­times they don't come home for days, and I guess the own­ers had to leave. I was glad to be able to place Kitty with the local librar­ian who has enjoyed this stray for ten years now.

  23. Kristi says:

    We are a two dog house­hold. One Standard Poodle, Emma and one German Shorthaired Pointer, Brady. Emma is a ther­apy dog at one of our local hos­pi­tals and Brady works as a bird dog, dur­ing sea­son. We are your typ­i­cal middle-aged, post-children dog own­ers. We take our dogs every­where and alter our sched­ules to be home with them if we can't take them along. And, we wouldn't have it any other way.

    Thanks for the con­test, even if we don't win!