How do You Define Small?

Posted January 20th, 2010 by kerri and filed in small house living
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I wanted to point out this arti­cle that appeared in USA Today to my read­ers here at Living Large.

It talks about the dream home fea­tured at this years’ International Builder’s Show. “Small, vir­tual, afford­able,” pro­claims the headline.

I admit, I think it’s a pretty home, but small?

Sometimes, when I’m inter­viewed by my col­leagues in the press about liv­ing large in a lit­tle house, they ask me how I define small.
I’ve heard many dif­fer­ent def­i­n­i­tions from peo­ple asso­ci­ated with the small house movement.

I believe a “small” house is sub­jec­tive, given the person’s per­cep­tion. I thought our “starter” home in the city was small at 1,110 square feet, com­pared to some of the behe­moths my friends and fam­ily lived in. I def­i­nitely think 480 square feet is small, how­ever, there are some who live in much smaller.

It is rel­a­tive and sub­jec­tive to how you define “small” in your own mind. For some­one down­siz­ing from 4,000 square feet, I sup­pose 1,700 square feet would seem small.

I’m just glad that builders are rec­og­niz­ing there is a desire for peo­ple to live in smaller homes. At least the con­ver­sa­tion is now in the main­stream media.

What do you think?

24 Responses to “How do You Define Small?”

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  2. Meredith says:

    This is so inter­est­ing. Our place, which is about 1230 sq ft feels..well, big! But lots of peo­ple in our area (south­ern CA) won­der how we man­age in a place so "tiny"–or why we'd want to. We looked numer­ous times at larger homes and con­tem­plated buy­ing one, but always came up feel­ing less than enthu­si­as­tic in the long run. Your blog has really helped me pay atten­tion to this big-little issue, which I find fascinating.

    • Thanks, Meredith, for read­ing. Since 1,250 is larger than any­thing we've ever had, I'm sure it would feel very big to us. As you say, it is a mat­ter of what makes a per­son com­fort­able. When I read com­ments on other blogs or on arti­cles that appear about small space liv­ing, some peo­ple think it is about mak­ing every­one live in a small space. They're def­i­nitely miss­ing the point.

  3. T.J. says:

    I, too, grew up in a small 2 bed­room, 1 bath home, with par­ents and 2 sib­lings. We learned how to share a bath­room among the five of us, make rooms mul­ti­pur­pose, and carve out a cor­ner some­where that was your own. Many retirees are in mobile homes with 1000 sq ft, and have more than enough room. Perspective is every­thing, and I remem­ber won­der­ful Christmases in my par­ents small home when the grown kids came home with their kids. We just all scrunched in, hugged and laughed a lot, and were glad to be together.

  4. RowdyKittens says:

    My per­spec­tive of small has changed over time. I think it depends on your life cir­cum­stance, how big your fam­ily is, etc. :) 5 years ago, I thought liv­ing small was 1,500 square feet and now I con­sider 100 to 500 square feet liv­ing small. :_

    Great ques­tion and awe­some comments!

    • Isn't it funny how our per­cep­tions can change, Tammy? Four years ago, I also thought our 1,100 square foot house was small and won­dered if we would ever afford to move from our "starter home!"

  5. One thing to con­sider, you can be sus­tain­able and not have to be small…ant least really small.

    We are think­ing of a mod­i­fied earthship…maybe..1500 to 1800 sf. That may seem big­ger than most small homes but there are some other reasons…part of that space will house the work/shop stu­dio and part will also be plant­ing beds to grow food…the roof area will be used for rain catch..since this will be an off grid no well type of home in the high desert of NM.

    I wrote some more at my blog.

    http://​kmswood​works​.word​press​.com/​2010​/​01​/​13​/​s​m​a​l​l​-​l​i​v​i​n​g​-​v​s​-​s​u​s​t​a​i​n​a​b​l​e​-​l​iving/

    • I agree, there's many things to con­sider when defin­ing "sus­tain­able" and "envi­ron­men­tally friendly," such as insu­la­tion, method of heating/cooling, gray water or rain catch sys­tems, etc. Also, as Mo pointed out, the num­ber of peo­ple liv­ing in a home that has green aspects.

  6. Mo says:

    This is an inter­est­ing dis­cus­sion. Having been in the build­ing trades for most of three decades I've seen a few trends. This is not meant as an excuse but "Builders", a vast major­ity of which are small busi­nesses are sim­ply build­ing what peo­ple will buy and within the reg­u­la­tions imposed on prop­erty own­ers by the gov­ern­ment — which always skews toward pro­duc­ing tax revenue.

    In the 1980's their was a time when energy effi­ciency was pro­moted and mar­keted. Unfortunately fru­gal home­own­ers want­ing to save heat dis­abled or didn't use the homes ven­ti­la­tion sys­tem which lead to mildew, rot and health issues.

    In the 1990's it was all about Square Footage… the more the bet­ter. Quality didn't mat­ter to buy­ers as much as size.

    The late ninety's saw "green" build­ing get­ting trac­tion again. Building depart­ments even had per­sonal to pro­mote "green" build­ing. The prob­lem was that they didn't want to sur­ren­der any tax rev­enue so min­i­mum size was not reduced, instead they increased den­sity for a net gain to their cof­fers. Frustrating…

    I attended a num­ber of "Green" and "Affordable" sym­po­siums find­ing the gov­ern­ment def­i­n­i­tions of both incon­gru­ent with­out a healthy dose of delu­sional thinking…

    Another trend that I have observed in our cur­rent econ­omy is that many of the McMansion homes are now being occu­pied by extended fam­i­lies. While a 4,000 sf house might not be con­sid­ered "green" I would sug­gest that the num­ber of occu­pants should be con­sid­ered when apply­ing the "green" label. 8 or more in 4,000 sf vs. 2 in 1200

    • Good point on the num­ber of occu­pants in the green consideration.

    • Kerri,

      What a sim­ple ques­tion that has led to some fas­ci­nat­ing dis­cus­sion and a few trips down mem­ory lane. Mo's trend response is quite inter­est­ing. I can't say I live in a small house. I moved from a 3000 sf home to a 2200 sf home. It's just me. I have too much space and too much stuff. I day­dream about down­siz­ing! What would work for me? I think I'd like some­thing in the 12001500 sf range. I can't imag­ine why I'd need more space than that. But I don't think I could go as low as you, Kerri. I just think I'd feel too con­fined. Still, I like read­ing about your expe­ri­ence in the lit­tle house.

  7. Alexandra says:

    Thanks for point­ing out this arti­cle. Now "small" also needs to be per­ceived as the right choice for the com­ing cen­tury. Building big today makes no sense at all.

  8. Kim says:

    Mary, I've eyed those Eureka tree­houses as well… I hope to visit some­day! I'd love one of my own, but I'd be afraid, once I built one, that my host tree would end up like that ice storm vic­tim Keri described!

    Keri, I share your opin­ion… even Susanka's famed "not-so-big house" designs are still much big­ger than my idea of a small house.

    • Kim, I think my own per­sonal his­tory helps me define small too. I lived with my par­ents in a bun­ga­low with no more than 1,000 sq. ft. until I was 15 and then we moved to what was always referred to as "the big house," a Victorian Tudor with prob­a­bly 2,000 or so sq. ft. and I think it's funny that many peo­ple today would even see that as "small."

  9. You should do it, Mary! Our neigh­bors were so dis­ap­pointed last year as the ice storm fell a huge tree they had planned on build­ing a tree­house in. I think it would be a great stu­dio! When I was a kid, I made a writer's stu­dio on top of the neigh­bors wood­pile. Not exactly a tree­house, but I could pretend!

  10. Great post. 1,200 sq feet feels like ample space for me, a hus­band, two dogs and soon a baby. Maybe two babies. i think we'd like a bit big­ger once we have more chil­dren and the chil­dren are older — mainly so we can have a bit of pri­vacy from the kids. a 'bit big­ger' to me would be two extra rooms, not extra extra floors. another arti­cle that raised my eye­brows this week was in the paper i used to write for, the tri­bune, about a devel­oper push­ing 4,000-sq-ft homes as small and envi­ron­men­tally friendly in a very rich chicago sub­urb where the 8,000-sq-ft palace has long been the norm. i must admit i was com­forted to see read­ers light up the com­ments sec­tion with con­cerns that 4k sq ft. isn't "green"!
    here's the link to that story: http://​www​.chicagotri​bune​.com/​b​u​s​i​n​e​s​s​/​c​h​i​-​f​r​i​-​w​i​n​e​-​h​o​u​s​i​n​g​-​0115​j​a​n​15​,​0​,​6587120​.story

    • Thanks for the link, Emily! I have to agree with the commentors!

    • Keri says:

      Privacy from the kids? It's not gonna hap­pen until they move out of the house or you go away some­where. ;)

      One of the trends today is that each fam­ily mem­ber has their own room or the mas­ter bed­room is as far away as pos­si­ble from the kids' bed­rooms sad­dens me. Families are drift­ing apart from each other because of this trend. I feel that we have a close con­nec­tion with our kids because we share the same space day in and day out.

      I would say that 'small' depends on how many occu­pants in how many square feet of space. A fam­ily of four in a 1,000 sq ft house may see small. Our house is 1,450 square feet which seems to be the aver­age but we only use half of that space the major­ity of the time. The first floor is one big open room: din­ing room, kitchen and liv­ing room all jum­bled into one room. Upstairs we have 3 bed­rooms, only one of which we use dur­ing the night: the 4 year-old sleeps on the floor in our bed­room while the 1-year-old sleeps with us. The boys' bed­room is mainly used as a play­room. The office/guest room/junk col­lec­tor room is rarely used but I imag­ine that when we have 1 or 2 more kids, it will be their bedroom.

      Some peo­ple can't imag­ine rais­ing 4 kids in our house but I remind them that my grand­mother grew up in a one-room house in Ireland with 9 broth­ers and sis­ters. If they can man­age, we can too. It's a mat­ter of mind over mat­ter. ;)

  11. Cindy t says:

    I have been Doing research on how oth­ers are man­ag­ing in smaller homes as I will be down­siz­ing to a 1064 sq foot cabin soon. I stum­bled on your site this week­end!!! My Closing is pend­ing, and I am fran­ti­cally sift­ing through a hun­dred years (exager­a­tion) accu­mu­la­tion of TruckLoads of STUFF (not exager­a­tion). Have made 8 pick up loads of stuff to Goodwill to find new homes for my un needed STUFF. Have 7 large boxes of Books in my wagon to go 1/2 price books, (don't worry still have 4 boxes of favorite books to go to the new place) Thank good­ness for my old­est daugh­ter who has bru­tal and help­ing go through all of the STUFF.…."Now Mom how many years ago did you intend to do these projects, sten­cil­ing, take up this hobby/craft"…you get the pic­ture it has really helped me get rid of the STUFF. Amazing how much STUFF I have held on to think­ing maybe…someday…! I feel lighter already. I know 1064 sq ft is big by some stan­dards but seems just right for me! Little Log cabin next to a lake! Can't wait! I will be work­ing from there too! Hope to be back and visit you some more for more ideas! Cindyt

    • Welcome, Cindy! Glad you found us! Good luck with your move. Your descrip­tion sounds just like ours — I made count­less trips to the Salvation Army and 1/2 Price books and still had over 50 boxes more to give away when we got here! I still have more stuff than I need.

  12. 1,200 square feet is big enough for me and it appears to be too big when I am clean­ing. I have a book on tree houses. I thought it would be neat to have one as a stu­dio. People are build­ing them to be used as an office or a guest cot­tage. A busi­ness in Eureka Springs rents their tree houses.
    I would love to stay a week-end in one to enjoy and to dream.